• Kindness is Punk@lemmy.ca
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    6 hours ago

    Translation for this person because they’ve rightfully been misunderstood: Why does it seem like there is a disproportionate amount of tall men ending up in relationships with short women? This seems to be a statistical aberration when compared against other factors.

    The answer is societal expectations of tall men/short women, kinks, standard height deviations among genders.

    • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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      5 hours ago

      Why does it seem like there is a disproportionate amount of tall men ending up in relationships with short women?

      The dick looks bigger next to a smaller person and you feel more powerful being able to move such a small person around so easily in bed. Gay men have bears and twinks. This isnt just a heterosexual thing. I would know.

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      Oh man, I’m giving up on this thread. I seriously don’t know how I could more clearly explain what I’m talking about. I even edited my main comment to no avail. I’M NOT TALKING ABOUT TALL MEN SIMPLY DATING SHORTER WOMEN, my gf is 20cm shorter too. I quite literally meant child-height in relativity.

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        3 hours ago

        That’s stupid then, no offense. The height of children ranges greatly just like the height of adults, there’s considerable overlap.

        It isn’t something clearly defined.

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          I don’t need a definition of a children’s height to have average image of their height and feel disgust when I see grown ass man or tall dude with one that next to him makes me wonder if that’s their child or wife

          Literally how is this stupid? It’s how I feel. It’s my feelings, which are objective to me that are not imaginary and I cannot ignore. I believe there is clear logic behind it and rest is a matter of personal opinion or your own “feel” towards the matter, but is it really stupid?

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            56 minutes ago

            You can have stupid feelings, especially once they concern how you treat others. There’s a big difference between “idk why, but I really like cherry flavored ice cream” and “idk why, but these people make me feel uncomfortable”, because the latter opens you up to treating others with prejudice.

            It’s your job to wrestle with them and make sure your feelings are justified, or to change your mind.