Partly because extreme self consciousness has become normal in the era where abnormalities can get you recorded and posted on the internet for mockery.
Like I get it, I have an anxiety disorder and cptsd and was bullied as a kid all of which combine to a form of extreme self consciousness. But my fear of playing my steam deck in a laundromat or on the bus is what’s left of what was at a much less healthy stage of life a fear of going to the grocery store or browsing in a shop for more than exactly what I went in for (ok I still struggle with that one).
It’s mental illness that certain corners of the internet, 4chan especially, have not only normalized, but gone so far as to encourage in each other and likely induce. Also given that it’s 4chan it probably originates with self consciousness from failure to understand social rules and expectations and the policing of themselves extending to policing of others
Repeat after me, IDGAF. And I know that doesn’t fix everything, especially not the world, but for some people, some of the time, it can help. Make it a mantra for a while, until it’s served it’s purpose (you can go too far). Also, stay off 4chan (obvs).
Why?
Partly because extreme self consciousness has become normal in the era where abnormalities can get you recorded and posted on the internet for mockery.
Like I get it, I have an anxiety disorder and cptsd and was bullied as a kid all of which combine to a form of extreme self consciousness. But my fear of playing my steam deck in a laundromat or on the bus is what’s left of what was at a much less healthy stage of life a fear of going to the grocery store or browsing in a shop for more than exactly what I went in for (ok I still struggle with that one).
It’s mental illness that certain corners of the internet, 4chan especially, have not only normalized, but gone so far as to encourage in each other and likely induce. Also given that it’s 4chan it probably originates with self consciousness from failure to understand social rules and expectations and the policing of themselves extending to policing of others
Repeat after me, IDGAF. And I know that doesn’t fix everything, especially not the world, but for some people, some of the time, it can help. Make it a mantra for a while, until it’s served it’s purpose (you can go too far). Also, stay off 4chan (obvs).
Getting a solid answer on that from teenagers is basically not possible. They live life based on “vibes”, and the vibes are cringe
Huh. There aren’t many teenagers in my life but the two who matter to me (my nephews) have always been pro-video-game.
The ones i know love gaming, but doing it in public is cringe to them
I guess I don’t go out in public, so I wouldn’t know.
Its better that way. Outside kinda sucks these days
Have you ever heard of / read House of Stairs by William Sleator?
Nope, but ill add it to the reading list.
I only mentioned it because there’s a part wherein one of the protagonists mentions going outside involving a gas mask. Seemed relevant.