“If at first you don’t succeed, try again.” “Winners never quit and quitters never win.”

Our culture has a lot of sayings against quitting, making it seem like a failure. But sometimes, abandoning a goal means opening up space for something better.

By NPR.

  • Flagstaff@programming.devEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Hey, I agree with you. I’m saying I know for sure that that’s exactly how they’ll react, and I’m well aware that it’s toxic. I’ve been trying to change their mind for literal years and I’m at the brink of giving up because it’s been like smashing my head against a brick titanium wall. All I’m saying is that there are people who I would absolutely not send these comics to because it’d exacerbate their struggles, for as long as they have their current mindset, anyway.

    Yes, this friend has also been diagnosed as autistic and thinks way too binary, and just keeps going back to this all-or-nothing/nuclear mindset despite me doing my best to change that… It’s been absolutely aggravating and I think I just need to pull back.

    • JohnnyEnzyme@piefed.socialEnglish
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      2 days ago

      Huh, okay.
      Sorry for my rudeness.
      I’m not such a happy person these days, but…
      that’s not your problem.

      Sorry bout that, mate.

      • Flagstaff@programming.devEnglish
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        2 days ago

        Oh, I didn’t think it was rude; just a small misunderstanding at worst. I’m glad we’re on the same page. I really hope that I can get them to think in fewer black-&-white ways as you have achieved, because recognizing smaller wins or steps on the zigzag path to stability could be the biggest booster to their quality of life!