• FanciestPants@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    Like 30+ years of not thinking about it for a moment, and now suddenly you’ve got Satan by Orbital stuck in my head.

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    16 hours ago

    The other day I saw some dude throw his cigarette on the ground before getting on line in front me to get carded to enter a bar. For a long moment I considered picking it up and going “hey, you dropped this” and handing it back to him.

    But I didn’t, because there’s no way that ends happily.

    But man, fuck people who litter.

  • Dicska@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    Meh. Do I regret some of my inactions? Hell, I do. Do I regret some of my awful moves/decisions 400% more? I fucking do. The amount of cringeworthy brain cramps I get for just thinking of them for a split second make me wish they were just another one of my regretful inactions, instead.

  • NaibofTabr@infosec.pub
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    15 hours ago

    Selection bias. You don’t spend any time thinking about the occasions when inaction was the right choice, because they seem unremarkable from everyday events.

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      11 hours ago

      Not the claim though. It’s about the inactions you do notice and supposedly will regret the most, compared to actions you regret taking.

      I don’t really agree with the post, but your comment has nothing to do with the statement…

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        9 hours ago

        Oh, I disagree.

        You regret the inactions that you think about, because you think about them, specifically as instances where you failed to act and that led to unfortunate consequences.

        Disregarding the good outcomes of inaction is very relevant, because when you are mired in that regret it is the inaction that you are thinking of as being the failure, rather than the circumstances surrounding that situation. This leads you to the mistaken conclusion that inaction itself is the problem.

        As it’s been said, “It is possible to commit no mistakes, and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life.”

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    19 hours ago

    My greatest regrets are all actions that ended up hurting someone. Even the inactions I regret most are related to not preventing pain which I had the power to do something about.

    I think this post is talking about a different kind of regret or comes from someone with very different life experience than me.

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      18 hours ago

      Yeah same, the things that haunt me are the things that hurt other people. That’s not to say fomo isn’t real, but it isn’t what keeps me up at night.

  • EndOfLine@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    Reminds me of that woman in Germany who jumped into the polar bear enclosure at the Berlin zoo to swim with the bears.