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      I’ve seen enough of the comments that you did make to be more than confident of my guess.

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          For anyone interested, the original comment was:

          “I’ve got enough of the comments that you did make to judge you on the ones you don’t.”

          and I edited it for style and readability.

          I edit my comments like this all the time and will continue to do so as long as it doesn’t change the general meaning/intent. I’m sorry you don’t like it, but then again, I don’t like all of the misandry in your comments and would much rather you edit it out after the fact, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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              Misogyny being objectively worse than misandry in a wide variety of ways does not excuse you from adding to the misandry that does exist, in this case demonizing OP for a title that clearly wasn’t misogynist and which could easily have been based on their lived experience.

              We should be lifting each other up, not fighting about who is dragging each other down harder.

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                Idk man it seemed kind of misogynist to me. If you make a general unqualified statement based on your lived experience, you are (ambiguously) applying that experience to others based only on their immutable qualities. At least, that would not be an uncommon nor entirely unfounded reading of the statement’s intent.

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                    You have avoided engaging meaningfully with any of my comments and have interpreted them with so many preconceived layers of this conversation that I legitimately do not know what point you are trying to make here.

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                    Oh there was meaning behind it. I’m not going to get a fair shake here with hakase accusing me of misandry so virulently from that single comment though.

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                  The whole “I’m just innocently asking questions” schtick clearly isn’t working in this thread. You’ll get 'em next time though (as long as you post in womensstuff where nobody will call you out on it, of course!)

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          Like I very clearly stated in the other thread, I avoid you except for calling out your misandry bullshit, and this comment is more than close enough to qualify.

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              In the same way calling out perceived misandry is considered misogyny, apparently.

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                  That the original OP clearly had a specific person in mind when making the meme.

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                    laurenceofSuburbia reposts memes from Reddit. They’ve said so in recent comments as well. This isn’t a personal post.

                    Does telling a specific woman to use their big girl words turn the phrase into something kind or positive?