I actually knew a guy in an anime fangroup, who had a rape fetish so bad, that he couldn’t stop complaining about NSFW artwork that depicted consensual sex in any form. Allegedly he got banned from that group after one of the mods found out he was a rapist, who raped his girlfriend multiple times, and even got the police involved.
My ex left me because I wouldn’t rape her, so she found someone who would.
And she wasn’t doing the whole, “revisit your trauma in a situation where you have control,” thing. She was never abused, and didn’t even want there to be a safe word.
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CW for mention of rape
I actually knew a guy in an anime fangroup, who had a rape fetish so bad, that he couldn’t stop complaining about NSFW artwork that depicted consensual sex in any form. Allegedly he got banned from that group after one of the mods found out he was a rapist, who raped his girlfriend multiple times, and even got the police involved.
My ex left me because I wouldn’t rape her, so she found someone who would.
And she wasn’t doing the whole, “revisit your trauma in a situation where you have control,” thing. She was never abused, and didn’t even want there to be a safe word.
I had hoped it was a rape fetish where he was the victim instead :::