- cross-posted to:
- xkcd@lemmy.world
- cross-posted to:
- xkcd@lemmy.world
Source: https://xkcd.com/3172/
More context: https://www.explainxkcd.com/wiki/index.php/3172:_Fifteen_Years
I’ve copied some of it below, but I didn’t go in and add all the links:
Randall’s then-fiancée (now wife) was diagnosed with cancer in late 2010. This is a matter he has discussed in the comic multiple times before, with Randall being depicted as Cueball and his wife as Megan. At this comic’s release, it had been 15 years since her diagnosis and treatments.
This comic continues previous comics in the series – 1141: Two Years, 1928: Seven Years, and 2386: Ten Years – the initial parts of which are shown in the first 20 panels, which are grayed-out. These take us through the initial diagnosis and inability to imagine what future might be, into concerns about it potentially recurring, and up to enjoying ten years of life together that they weren’t sure they would have.
After some new panels marking more significant non-cancer-related events from the most recent five years of their life, Megan announces some potentially concerning-sounding symptoms she’s experiencing. However, the punchline is that these are just the signs of growing old, which Cueball is experiencing too. This is good news, considering the serious medical scares they lived through.
The title text continues that ending with a play on a common conversation topic. Normally someone rhetorically asks “Want to feel old?” and then follows it with a description of a difference the conversants have with the younger generation, or how long it’s been since some significant event they both experienced, as Randall has done in several previous comics. This is meant to make the other person feel bad about their age. In this case, though, the question is taken literally, with a simple “Yes” response to indicate that feeling old is better than being dead and they are happy to be alive and to have had the time they have.
The finality of this new installment suggests that it may be the last in the series, as it is solely related to Randall’s wife’s recovery from cancer.
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I lost my Dad to cancer earlier this year, for the last few months, even on his birthday, I’ve struggled to cry. This did the trick for me. I miss you, Dad!
I’m not crying, you’re crying!
(Okay, I’m also crying.)
It’s a terrible day for rain.
It’s the monsoon i swear.
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Ah, to be loved.
thank god instead of being “oh shit she dead” it’s “we’re getting old now”
Oh shit, congrats to them. Randall’s wife got cancer a few years before my mom did, and his comics on the topic were huge for me to be able to cope with something so heavy as a teenager.
I’m happy for them :)
Thanks for making me cry first thing in the morning, I guess
Quite recently I was wondering if he’ll release a new update in this series. Glad to see everything is still fine!
Aww
Congratulations to both of them. I’m glad they’ve had the money and connections to get the medical care they needed, and I hope they can pay it forward to others who need the same help.
I have genuinely conflicting feelings both for and against this kind of comment. Don’t have time to unpack them so I’ll just say it means there’s a fruitful discussion to be had and an online forum is a fine place to have it.
Not much against it though, I don’t see it as a criticism directed at Randall & family, but at a fucked up healthcare system that lets poor (and often not-rich-enough) people die.
I am also happy for this particular success story but I share the sentiment expressed in the previous comment.
It turns what should be a good, bittersweet moment into… resent, envy, and chiding.
And for what? Because so many cancer survivors campaign against cancer research and helping people with cancer? In my experience, they’re not exactly the pull up the ladder types.
Jfc this is exactly why people run to the right, because so many people on the left can’t let anything be a nice moment without making sure everyone knows that they’re the most moral person in the room. We all already know the problems.
Stop virtue signalling. It’s transparent, annoying, and hurts the causes more than helps.
I remember a lot more of this kind of encouragement from churchgoers, and it was usually well-intentioned there too.
Its not virtue signaling. People vent frustrations on the internet, welcome friend!
Go fight for the health system you deserve instead.
If third world countries can have decent basic universal health systems, why is it so hard for you guys?
I lost two people to cancer this year. Sucks.
I’m not sure this comic is the heartwarming post you think it is.
That’s fair, your words are valid as well.
I don’t think this comic is necessarily heartwarming or wholesome. It’s a short story that shares details from the author’s life. I can see how it can give hope to some while making others feel worse.
I’m sorry for your loss
I lost my grandmother and my sister is currently in treatment, both my parents are showing symptoms but don’t have money for Healthcare and refuse to go into medical debt. I myself am sitting on top of a handful of symptoms I’m willfully ignoring hoping they’ll go away.
It is a heartwarming post.
Just seems like a weird place to be negative.
I mean personally, it’s not something I expect to be reminded of in the top of the feed for what is otherwise a pretty light webcomic community.
