• I’m in my 40s. I can and do hit this pose. If you can’t maybe work up to it but please don’t buy into the idea that you should be stiff. Unless you have an underlying condition stretching daily is a great thing. Stay flexy everyone.

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      Almost 50 and still touching my toes! Staying limber has definitely helped me not succumb to a mostly sedentary life. Just went white water rafting yesterday.

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      As the Old, I second this, and would like to amplify the idea you have put forth for everyone else.

      I spend 5 minutes stretching every morning as my coffee steeps. I always have. I can still put my head behind my ankles, or on my knees, bent in half with my legs extended.

      I’m 50 and it shows no sign of getting harder to do. If you’re just getting into it, or trying to regain flex, I’d recommend doing it at night for 5 minutes too. One in the Morning kind of resets your range from sleep, a second at night can extend it.

      Don’t “push through pain”!! unless you and a professional pinpoint exactly what it is and agree how to deal with it. That “tight pain” at the edge of your range should just be gently sat up against. As it becomes safe to move through, it will loosen and stop hurting like that. Otherwise, that’s your wall. Lean against it, but don’t push through it or try to break it. It’s made of You. You’ll be breaking through You.

      This is something you plan and execute over your whole life, not a quick fix. Please approach your technique and expectations with this in mind. The reward is felt in every aspect of your existence.

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      I can do this pretty easily, I cannot and never have been able to sit cross legged, and 3rd grade me should have been allowed to murder my gym teacher.

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      Personally I find it quite easy as well (mid 30s) but not only do I work a physically demanding job I work out (calisthenics) quite consistently.

      Not enough people move around enough in novel ways.

      I literally know a guy who’s my age that threw his back out wiping his ass.

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        I threw out my back walking up stairs. Not running, not doing that quick little hopping thing you do on stair sometimes… walking. Put my right foot down and then my back went “yeah, enough existing today”.

        I had probably been over-exercising when working out, but boy that smarted.

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    Jokes aside people in their 30s should not be sore and in pain all the time. That’s just being out of shape.

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      That’s just being out of shape.

      Like, to a degree, you’re not wrong. Desk jobs, car culture, a lack of free time, it all adds up to bonus aches and pains that a more active person can avoid. But there’s another angle to it, which is simply that you don’t heal from every injury in full. And you don’t heal as quickly or thoroughly once you’ve stopped growing. So your body keeps the score.

      A lot of getting older is about avoiding strains as much as keeping in shape. You’re trying to avoid adding new injuries to the pile, because they confound what you exercises you can continue to do and hobble your ability to stay limber and maintain muscle over time.

      You see this a lot with people in their 40s and 50s. They’re healthy, they’re strong, they’re going along just fine. And then they get into a car accident. Or they experience some emotional trauma. Or they get a nasty illness. Or anything that puts them in bed for too long. They gain weight. They lose muscle and flexibility. They slow down. And one bad year ages them more than a dozen good ones.

      Then you see it again in the 80s and 90s, when a single bad fall will straight up kill you.

      Exercise helps, sure. And eating rights. And being on the right medications early on. But everything you’re doing is about dodging that next bullet. Trying to over-exert yourself can be just as dangerous as sitting idle. My grandfather died in his mid-60s after what my grandmother claims he insisted was the best tennis game of his life. Heart gave out in his sleep. My grandmother lived another 30 years, half of them in a wheelchair, until she took a spill trying to get out of bed and cracked her hip.

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        I’ve started sitting on the floor a few times a day because getting off the floor was getting to be more challenging than it ought to have been. We’ve really opted for physiqal convenience as a society and it’s killing us.

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        You’re absolutely spot on. It’s terrifying how much one accident can mess you up as you age. The thing about falls in an elder is that it isn’t just the body that gets hurt - it’s the brain, too. I knew a sweet lady who started as someone who simply forgot important things sometimes, who was living in the independent “assisted living” part of the nursing home I worked in. One fall in the bathroom later, and after spending a few weeks in the hospital to heal her broken leg, she ended up transferred to the end stage dementia floor. She had become so irritable and confused that I barely recognized her. In fact, a lot of stories of people coming to nursing homes start with a simple fall, it’s scary. People come in confused why they can’t “go home,” with brains so damaged they aren’t even aware of how serious their disabilities have become.

        It kind of makes me wonder if similar accidents in younger adults can be making changes to our brains that we simply don’t realize yet.

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      Yup, I’m in my 30s and generally feel great, unless one of my old injuries jumps to the forefront again.

      In general I just make sure to keep moving in creative ways and everything still works. I know people who live that potato life and they’re constantly stiff and hurting.

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            Surely I wasn’t the only one who tried it immediately after reading the comic?

            spoiler

            I can’t do it.

            Not remotely close.

            Comically far from it really.

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              Just tried it. I’m in my mid-upper 30s and far from fit, but I didn’t have any problem.

              Though I never had a problem doing “butterflies” either, and from what I recall in school gym class, stretching legs like that, to the point that one’s knees touched the ground, was hard for a lot of people.

              On the plus side, it was the one time in all of gym class that I was able to be better than others at something. It’s a small w, but I’ll take it.

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      Hey I’m working out to the point of (controlled) failure constantly. If a muscle isn’t sore for at least a few days then I’m doing something wrong probably.

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    Near 60, tried it, can do that without warming up but I do yoga. And recommend yoga. It really does help with strength, balance, flexibility. All things that help you age better.

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    I never thought it was supposed to be a challenging pose. Thought it was just a horny one.

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      It’s pretty much a standing pancake stretch, a common stretch for people working on flexibility in their splits and straddles. I was unaware it’s seen as a horny pose lol. It’s pretty intense in your hamstrings and adductors. Definitely possible to train past 30, but requires starting light and doing it consistently over many months.

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    You, a 30 year old: “I screwed up my back doing some insane yoga bullshit.”

    Me, a 40 year old: “Hold my pepcid, I’m going to simply roll out of bed wrong.”

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      Look at this guy, with a healthy enough mental status to even WANT to get out of bed.

      I keep hoping that my apartment will be flooded, and I’ll drown in my sleep.

      Then I remember I’m on the 5th floor.

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        I wake up angry and disappointed every day. And it usually takes me a couple of hours to work my way out of bed.

        I keep hoping I’ll wake up and it haven all been some twisted dream. 🤷‍♂️

        ~Anyway, I hope your day doesn’t suck too bad!~

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        Honestly, this. I was just thinking the other day, the hard bedrock beneath it all that keeps me going is the fact that I put my nephews and nieces as beneficiaries on my life insurance policy. If I want to make their lives a little easier, I’m going to have to begrudgingly keep going until the inevitable finds its way to me on its own.

        Thankfully, my day job is usually enjoyable. I’m just not going out of my way to prolong myself. I’m over halfway to retirement age and can barely get by on what I make - the idea of saving for retirement is laughable. I’m lucky if I don’t have to touch my savings in a given month, but most of the time I’m shifting money in and out because try as I desperately do to save, I’m barely breaking even. Hopefully this Friday I’ll be able to add a few bucks again and finally have over $2000 in savings for the first time since my ex dicked me over last year. Hopefully. Life has been… relentless.

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      I must’ve had the injuries there before but my year of horrible back pain, a partially paralyzed foot, 2 MRTs diagnosing herniated lumbar discs and lots of physical therapy started because I sat on the couch wrong.