I think this warrants a fediverse wide boycott of all piefed/fedia instances until this is rectified.

  • NotMushroomForDebate@lemmygrad.ml
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    2 days ago

    Isn’t this how it’s always worked? I think it’s the same with lemmy.world where you can see comments from .world users on Lemmygrad but they can’t see your replies.

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    I think it’s annoying, but im not sure if there’s a clear solution. Id say this type of one sided block is similar to ghost bans and feels just as abusive.

    I cant imagine it’s very pleasant on their side either, since it would feel as if everyone from grad or ml were giving you the cold shoulder and make the fediverse feel dead.

    The nature of the fediverse is open though - escalating this to another ban/block or banning the custom fork would be counterproductive, imo. If thats their preferred way to curate content, I guess thats their prerogative

    • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      Omg dude we get it stop spamming this. We know. That is not what this is about.

      If someone runs an instance that has manually unblocked us cool but that is not what this is about and you are clearly the one not registering what I am pointing out here

      • Blaze (he/him)@lemmy.zip
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        You are presenting this like the baked in code forces one-way federation, when it’s clear that the admins can update this later.

        Example of two Piefed instances that currently federate hexbear:

        List of Piefed instances that currently defederate hexbear:

        https://piefed.fediverse.observer/list

        As you can see, instances defederating hexbear are instances managed by teams which were going to do so anyway, as they already did on Lemmy.

        Instances who want to federate know how to do so, there are three examples.

        • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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          Yes but I am saying we should block at least any that have this one directional federation. You are putting impressive effort into missing the point.

          Edit: And thankfully we apparently just did.

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              Oh my god please shut the fuck up. No it is not. You are being an annoying pedantic little piece of shit you do get that right? You fucking know what I am complaining about here and you keep posting this “welll AAAACKSHUALLLLLY”.

              Let me spell this out for you one last fucking time:

              “federation” in spirit is the sharing of content BETWEEN instances and is intended as a two way affair. Piefed instances default to blocking any and all traffic from hexbear or lemmygrad and thus there is no way to know if being federated with those instances is actually allowing mutual communication unless tested and therefore without explicit prior statement that the instance owner has gone in and removed the malicious coding nobody should federate with them at all.

              Finally and what this entire post is about: I am calling for everyone, not just hexbear, to defederate and block piefed on principle because their devs are deliberately trying to worsen the entire concept of the fediverse by trying to enforce their fascist ideology through blocking dissent through their code.

              It is underhanded and dishonest and a shameful display of liberalism aiding fascism.

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                thus there is no way to know if being federated with those instances is actually allowing mutual communication unless tested

                There is, I linked to the /instances pages that show which instances are federated or not above

                You fucking know what I am complaining about here and you keep posting this “welll AAAACKSHUALLLLLY”.

                You seem to be misunderstanding that defederation being one way is new. I literally used a comment from another hexbear user above clarifying this.

                If you want to complain about Piefed having a default defederation list, feel free, but don’t start to question the way defederation has been working between instances for years.

                • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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                  default defederation list,

                  THAT IS WHAT THIS POST IS ABOUT DUMBASS

                  Please kindly stop your pedantic bullshit and actually engage with the subject instead of endlessly trying to well ackshually out of it.

                  I swear to fucking god. I am not “misunderstanding” anything and your smug condescending tone just makes me want to shove your nerd ass into a locker.

    • Nora@lemmy.ml
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      I think it’s more that the admins are the only ones that can do that.

        • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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          23 hours ago

          THAT IS NOT WHAT THIS POST IS ABOUT. You are just shilling for this garbage ass perversion of lemmy at this point. You just keep spamming the same irrelevant post over and over again.

          • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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            He’s just very committed to making sure the Nazi bars have a good public image okay?

            There’s a huge post in their snark comm where they’re spinning this as ‘just a default’ and he’s pasting it there too lmao

              • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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                I did say as much in my post, it’s still an ideologically motivated preset. I’m sure all those sorts would be able to create their echo chamber without it being pre-configured for them. It’s hard to have ‘good faith’ when all the usual suspects plus its developer are posting in the comm alongside the people saying that we’re degenerate roaches. That’s why it looks like a Nazi bar from where I’m at.

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                  It’s the default setting for the echo chamber that I took issue with.

                  I did say that it was something admins can change manually in my initial post here, twice.

  • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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    @dessalines@lemmy.ml @davel@lemmy.ml I am curious as to your thoughts on this. It is very annoying for myself and others to write out effort posts refuting shit these liberals spew on our platforms only to find out none of them will ever see it. Meanwhile we have to be subject to their garbage posts and takes with no recourse. This is fundamentally detrimental to the fediverse as a whole.

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      There’s nothing we can do about server-to-server blocking, but I think over the long term, people will join servers that do less instance blocking, so that they can personally be in control of what they see.

      And of course everyone not on restricted servers will still see your replies / takedowns, so it really only harms them. In a big way, responses are just as important to onlookers, than the one you’re responding to.

      • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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        Oh yeah for sure I was just curious as to your thoughts on people taking this project and building in their own ideologically motivated blocking. I know that there is nothing to be done about it as its all open source I just find it scummy that they do this in the first place. I get not wanting to federate with specific instances but the way this works is to just automatically make it one way only unless the person using their fork manually changes it.

        I don’t want to force them to see our posts or comments or anything idgaf about that I just don’t want to have to guess which people I can see on my end can actually see my replies to them ya know?

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      I’d argue it’s more of an issue for them, since they do not get to counter-argument :P

      Your reply refuting their argument can be read by everyone that is in an open platform, while their messages only go unchallenged on their own echo chamber anyway.

      To me, it would be worse if it was the other way around: them spewing shit and me not even realizing and being unable to respond.

      • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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        In my experience, fallacious arguments spill and unravel over several comments, rarely up front, so it’s not a great thing.

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          It depends.

          The invalid reasoning a person might have for an argument does not necessarily invalidate the argument (if you can reach the same argument from multiple reasonings), it only discredits their ability to form arguments with a valid basis.

          So a long conversation can lead to the person losing credibility, but a strong rebuttal focused on the initial argument, to me, is more important if what we want is to refute the argument.

          • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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            Both have their place, but usually arguments start from low-effort jabs that then turn into serious refutations from others. Fundamentally, though, is the response, giving the original jab-maker a chance to give an actual argument, upon which it can fall apart and prove the original argument better, or can refute the argument and justify the jab.