Abundance in online dating makes it harder to become curious about a person, tolerate uncertainty, or feel satisfied with our choice, writes Meehika Barua.
  • GenderNeutralBro@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
    9·
    4 hours ago

    Most of them were full of bots and scammers even before the AI craze. I can only imagine how bad they are now.

    I’ll say that I had a good experience with Coffee Meets Bagel but that was years ago. Their gimmick at the time was that they only showed you up to 10 profiles per day so it didn’t incentivize doomscrolling like Tinder.

  • Spacehooks@reddthat.comEnglish
    21·
    8 hours ago

    Who’s shocked.

    My Male coworkers scroll hrs a daily for a match and get terrible options.

    Meanwhile Female coworkers get overwhelmed with 100s and cannot possibly get the best fit for them. Horrible for both sides.

    • rozodru@piefed.worldEnglish
      12·
      7 hours ago

      this is by design. NO COMPANY in the entire world is going to provide a product in hopes that one day you won’t need to use it anymore. So dating apps, by design, provide you with horrible matches so that you keep using said app. They don’t want you finding the “love of your life”, it’s bad business if they did.

      • B0rax@feddit.org
        3·
        4 hours ago

        Well it would help if it was a one time payment without any other form of monetization

  • Sawblade02@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    14·
    8 hours ago

    Not surprising at all, one conglomerate owns pretty much every single one of them, and it they’re successful you don’t need them anymore.

    • bedwyr@piefed.caEnglish
      4·
      5 hours ago

      They are all now shit if you don’t pay for it. Pof, okcupid, they are garbage. They used to work while silicon valley was still in it’s growth phase, hen enshitified when they entered the maximizing revenue phase, which started perhaps a bit earlier with dating sites than other sectors like search engines.