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PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 10 hours ago

Who's in the wrong here?

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Who's in the wrong here?

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PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 10 hours ago
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  • FishFace@piefed.social
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    41 minutes ago

    You

  • Slayan@lemmy.ca
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    Grey is faking outrage to get out of the situation

  • yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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    Also green could have meant “thank god you found someone good luck”

  • potoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world
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    Most likely, statistically, they’re both shitty people.

  • But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world
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    I hate people now. Nobody wants to keep their commitments. You can invite people to an event and they will all say yes, until a more enticing thing comes along and the flake on you last minute. If you say yes, be there, tell the other person “sorry I already made plans that day” like an adult

    • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
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      For me the issue is that everyone is always busy.

      Me: hey, how about we meet next Friday

      Person1: I can only do Sunday from 17 to 19

      Person2: I can only do Saturday

      Person3: I can do Sunday but from 19 to 21

      Person4: I can only do the Friday after that

      Or even better, they take 5 days to reply and in the end say something came up.

      But once I manage to find the one date that fits most people and plan something people do show up.

  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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    He probably knew he dodged a goldigger.

  • finallymadeanaccount@lemmy.world
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    Could’ve been, “Thank God, you found a promising opportunity. Hope it goes well”.

    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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      No, he said Lmao. She dumped him after he lost his. job.

      • captcha@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz
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        Did they lose their. job. though?

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    Greens response could’ve meant (s)he had a busy day at work and was glad to put their feet up. The bluntness met have been unintended.

    Grey then exploded and made it a problem, showing that green actually dodged a bullet.

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      (s)he

      ✨they✨

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        (t)hey

      • rapchee@lemmy.world
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        he … OR SHE

        • MyButSmellsBat@feddit.org
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          ✨they✨

          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gq5xLI77TGA

          • rapchee@lemmy.world
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            i think i was referencing a movie or tv show scene when a guy was trying to be progressive and when they were talking about an unknown person, he kept going “he … OR SHE did this or that”

            • Hazel@piefed.blahaj.zone
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              https://youtu.be/a-0iaC-1_Fo

    • KaChilde@sh.itjust.works
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      Counterpoint: Grey’s responses take a solid 30 mins. Green does not bother to clarify what they meant that entire time.

      Did green go overboard? Yes. Could grey have communicated at all? Also Yes.

      • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
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        Maybe they died?

        • captcha@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz
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          Of cringe, checks out

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    You deserve this

    Damn right they deserve to be free from that kind of personality

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    The one who flaked, and then said that there were better options. I’d respond just like the one who luckily got away.

    “Hey, I’m so sorry to do this, but, something came up”.

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    That’s the best answer he gave. Based on the limited, implication based knowledge we have of this conversation we don’t even know is real or staged.

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      Of course it’s real, there’s literally a photo. The day we can fake things like that will be a dark day indeed.

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    teal really proved living well is the best revenge.

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    Grey is definitely in the wrong, that’s exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.

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    I am for having read this. Doubly for commenting,

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      Hahaha, sucker!

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      wait, shit

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    Neither one is someone I want to talk to but grey really should’ve just put the phone down and focused on that promising opportunity

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      I don’t think grey actually has another “opportunity”. This feels like a negging tactic to me.

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        Remind me what negging is again

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          If I understand it correctly, it’s the use of negative framing of another person’s physical attributes or demeanor, constructed in the hope the receiver of the “negging” has low enough self-esteem to agree with the assessment and will assume the asshole is a person of higher intrinsic worth.

          There might be more to it, but I usually just think of it as a form of reverse psychology + emotional abuse.

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            That’s right, thanks. I haven’t heard it in awhile

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      Green has a decent counter play against being snubbed first, but it surely is a dick move versus just saying “okay, cheers”.

      However, we humans do crave drama, and I’ve been entertained, so I think in the grand scheme of things, as a miniature Shakespearean tragic comedy, I will allow for it to be cosmically more good than bad. Perhaps they both learned something. Or it’s all fake ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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        Having someone show their red flag this early warrants a “thank god” methinks. Also, “thank the flying spaghetti monster” is more like it.

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          Also, “thank the flying spaghetti monster” is more like it.

          Christ alive, y’all are some enlightened individuals. *tips fedora*

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            Christ alive

            Spelled Chris wrong, buddy.

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