• SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    5·
    1 hour ago

    It’s the best. Duck all you puritans, I need hornyposting to sustain me. It’s validating af. And bring back violet while you’re at it. shakes fist at a cloud

  • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.orgEnglish
    13·
    25 minutes ago

    What?! Is @Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone gone again?

    😨

    Edit: personally, she’s going to be fine, for the next few days at least.* Has she given up on Lemmy? See my latest post for details…

    * Edit edit: as per her alt, @McUberStein@lemmy.zip, I can now publicly say her BF had an injury. I was very worried the consequences might be disastrous, which is why I messaged her to offer emotional support, but he’s likely going to fully recover.

      • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        6·
        45 minutes ago

        Shhh

        Edit: god you suck for that. I have to come back to your comment… Don’t say shit like that to other people. You know that other accounts on here are actually other human beings, with lives, desires, insecurities, and needs? Why would you even say that about somebody? Please stop and check yourself before you hate yourself. And if you’re already there, and I suspect you are, don’t take it out on others, and go get help. You don’t have to be a piece of shit, you aren’t showing off to anybody. Most people who upvote stuff like you’re saying are callous in passing, but wouldn’t say stuff like what you said in real life because they aren’t awful human beings, and the ones that would or do, ARE awful human beings. Do your best not to take after those people.

        • Space_Cowboy92@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          30 minutes ago

          Oh look, another one to block!

          Edit: You all are on here running defense for someone on social media and idolizing them. Clear that no one on Lemmy is actually smarter than the average redditor that got their dicks hard for the jackdaw guy. Y’all need actual lives.

          • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            2·
            27 minutes ago

            You all are on here running defense for someone on social media and idolizing them. Clear that no one on Lemmy is actually smarter than the average redditor that got their dicks hard for the jackdaw guy. Y’all need actual lives.

            And you’re running offense against someone on social media and vilifying them.

            Look in the fucking mirror.

      • McUberStein@lemmy.zipEnglish
        4·
        2 hours ago

        Lol, you’re right. My presence here was nothing but an annoyance to people anyway. Don’t worry tho, I’m probably not coming back. You can enjoy your clean feeds now.

        • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          3·
          43 minutes ago

          Ignore spacecowboy92, that person is just confused and hurt and trying to fix themselves and making the mistake of tearing down others.

        • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          3·
          59 minutes ago

          I don’t WANT a clean feed. I need real humanity and validation of my needs, not sterilized shiteating puritanical fascism. I know how the swing goes. And there are a lot of idiots on here, of ALL flavors, I’m amongst them. But please, please, please don’t compromise on being yourself. You’re ALWAYS going to offend people, no matter what. You cannot please everybody, it’s impossible.

          So take the time you need, and be safe and well. But know that, should you choose to return, there will always be at least a few people here who appreciate what you’re bringing to the table. And judging by the upvotes on this post, I honestly think it’s actually the majority.

  • yuri@pawb.socialEnglish
    9·
    4 hours ago

    genuinely, the recent uptick of hornyposting has helped me get over a bunch of internalized shame that i didn’t realize i had.

    big ups to everyone for fostering such a safe and cozy space 💖

      • socsa@piefed.socialEnglish
        2·
        3 hours ago

        Fuck like they legitimately did this at almost the exact same time that I posted, didn’t they?

        This is the worst thing I’ve ever done and I’m sorry

        • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.orgEnglish
          2·
          14 minutes ago

          I think my DM to her may have caused this, actually…

          CW: self-harm

          it’s not bad itself (not gonna tell what’s up, it’s up to her to share why her situation* has me worried to the point of reaching out to Lemmy, which she’s just been actively using but hasn’t opened Matrix in a while; to be clear it’s not grave danger) but it made her open the chat last used when she expressed suicidal ideation and I pretended to want to visit her, as police wanted me to find out where she is so they could do a wellness check. She didn’t want to ever see it again and went with the nuclear option…

          * Edit: this is the situation in question

          Edit: Miisha insists this was not why she deleted her account. It’s clear she was already in distress so I’d say I wasn’t the only factor bit given the timing, it was probably the last straw

          • sunsoaked_lily@lemmy.mlEnglish
            2·
            1 hour ago

            you manipulated a trans woman into giving you her address so you could call the fucking cops on her? what the fuck?

            • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.orgEnglish
              2·
              30 minutes ago

              No, I don’t have her address or means to find it. (Even if I go to her neighborhood, I have no idea what name to look for on doorbells: likely her BF’s, which I don’t know.) She once slipped up and revealed her name (I then gave her mine to make her feel less insecure, even though unlike hers, it’s basically linked to my address, which she can find with not too much effort). By learning she was at home, I could tell the police her name and neighborhood (which she voluntarily shared, much like I had told her which little village I live in), and they used their database to find her, knock on the door and ask if she was fine. I did not present any evidence so they had no reason to do anything more than a wellness check. It may feel weird but our police is very much unlike US cops. Look at other comments, I think it did make her uncomfortable (mainly the disappointment that I’m not actually coming, revealing the trick the police told me to use) but it was justified what I did, given that − as many now agree − the alternative was genuine, high suicide risk. (See the post she made that day: she was even more desperate in DMs to me.) This was a real emergency, and I did the bare minimum…

              Don’t forget that Miisha didn’t find me creepy at all when we met, which is not foolproof but still a kind of validation that I’m not a lunatic who would harm her…

          • socsa@piefed.socialEnglish
            3·
            3 hours ago

            Damn I joke about killing myself all the time and none of y’all have ever tried to dox me for my own health.

            Guess I’ll just die then. I’ll leave my account up tho, I’m not a monster.

            • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.orgEnglish
              3·
              3 hours ago

              I never showed the police her account. (They didn’t want proof.) Or shared her real name with anyone but the police. Her real identity is still separate from the account. She seemed really serious with the plans, and given her mental health history, it seemed appropriate since I couldn’t come myself… and it seemed to work, she gave up for the day, and the BF came and then they were fine together

              So I didn’t doxx her… I did only have her real name due to a slip-up on her part though

              • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                6·
                3 hours ago

                So I didn’t doxx her… I did only have her real name due to a slip-up on her part though

                You doxxed her to the police though.

                I understand your concerns. Some of her posts were concerning. I’m not even totally opposed to you trying to get a wellness check done. Telling her about it was probably scary for her though.

                • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.orgEnglish
                  1·
                  3 hours ago

                  Well, I didn’t give them any way to find her online accounts. Her digital identity is safe, I needed to do this to protect the person behind. And they need to know the name and whether she’s at home to do their job…

  • Gyrcas@piefed.zipEnglish
    12·
    7 hours ago

    In the world nothing can be said to be certain, except death, taxes and Miisha hornyposting nice memes :3

  • nature_man [he/they]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    20·
    8 hours ago

    I wanted to horny post for a while but I figured it would be a tad bit too much, dont know why I forgot how horny the gay people in my magic computer box can be